Kristjan Kann

Honesty · Around You · 60 days

You become someone else in certain rooms.

You stop performing in the rooms where you always performed.

This is you if.

  • You are competent and respected, and you become a different man in three specific rooms. You could name them right now.
  • There is a conversation you have been avoiding for years and you know exactly who it is with.
  • You say yes and mean no, often enough that it has become how you are described.
  • Everything around you works, and almost none of it is quite true.

This is not you if.

  • You think honesty means saying everything to everyone. This is precision, not disclosure.
  • You are looking for permission to be cruel. It is the most common misuse of this word and I will refuse you for it.
  • Your marriage or your company is already in a legal process. Wait. Do it after.

You do not have to have done any of the other five. Come straight here if this is where you are.

The state you are in.

You walk into certain rooms and become someone else. The board room. Your mother’s kitchen. The dinner with the people who knew you at thirty.

You have a version for each and you run it without deciding to. It is exhausting in a way you have never counted, because it does not feel like work. It feels like being normal.

You are competent at it. That is the problem. Nobody is asking you to stop.

What 60 days changes.

You stop performing in the rooms where you always performed. Some go quiet. One or two get better than they have been in twenty years.

You say a true sentence to someone who has never heard one from you, and find out what happens, which is almost never what you spent a decade avoiding.

Who I refuse for this one.

  • Anyone not prepared to have six real conversations with real people inside sixty days.
  • Anyone who needs the outcome to be safe. Something may end. I will not tell you otherwise.

What is required of you.

Four hours a week. And six conversations you have been avoiding, one every ten days, each written up the same night.

Real conversations with real people. Not exercises, not letters you do not send. The order of the six is set by the protocol, not by you, and the easiest is not first.

What arrives.

Posted

The Protocol

Printed and sent before day one. Everything to do, in order, with the reasons underneath.

Posted

The Ledger

A bound logbook, one numbered page for each day.

05:00 daily

The Daily

One written instruction each morning. Three lines. They get shorter as you get better.

The last day

The Page

You write your closing record. I read it myself and write you one page back, by hand, and post it.

What you do not get.

No calls. No voice notes. No group. You will not meet me.

And nothing here is written for you specifically. This protocol was finished before I knew your name, which is why it costs a fraction of the year — it is a fraction of the year, the part that fits on paper.

The difference, laid out side by side →

$3,500. Paid in full.

If this is not your first, and you finished the last one inside thirty days, it is $1,600. That price cannot be bought, only finished into.

Apply →

If this is not the one

All six, side by side →