Two hours. Two weeks of work. Then we see what moved.
You sit with me and tell me the whole thing — not the version you tell other people.
I tell you what I see. Then I give you a small number of things to do, to stop, or to face. They are written down before you leave.
You do them for two weeks. Alone. I do not check on you.
Then we sit again for one hour. Most people arrive at that hour already changed — not because we talked well, but because they finally did the few things that were in the way.
the written instructions, and one page from me
What it is.
A meeting. Then work. Then a second meeting.
It is the fastest way to work with me and the most direct. For most people, something that has been stuck for years starts to move inside those two weeks.
You do not bring me one problem. You bring the whole of your life. Most people have told pieces of it to different people — their partner knows one part, a friend knows another, a doctor or a colleague knows something else. Nobody has seen the whole of it at once, and the part that hurts is rarely the part holding everything in place.
You do not need to know what is wrong. Not knowing is the usual reason to come.
One to one, in Tallinn or online. There is no application. If you later take anything else here, we take these $1,500 off the price of it.
How it goes.
You talk. Then I say what is actually running.
The first hour is yours. I ask, and then I do not fill the silence. Most people have told pieces of this to many people. Almost nobody has told the whole of it to one person, in one sitting. That takes about an hour.
In the second hour I say what I see. We test it against your real life until it stands or it falls. If it falls, good. We find the one that stands.
You leave with a few actions and the order to do them in. Not a plan for the year. I write them while we are still sitting there and you have the paper within a day. Nothing to remember. Nothing to interpret.
Nothing happens here except you.
You follow the instructions. You do not report to me. There is nothing to send in. If you want to write, you may, and I read it — that usually makes the third hour better.
Most people find that one of the things works faster than they expected. Often it is the one they were sure did not matter.
We start from what actually happened.
Not from what you hoped would happen. By now something has usually moved, so we get further in this hour than in the first two.
Then the last reading: what to keep, what to drop, what to do next, and in what order.
In that hour I write your page. What I saw. What changed. What to do. One page, because you will read one page again in six months and you will not read six. You have it within two days.
Why it is split.
So you do not have to trust me.
Almost everyone leaves the first meeting a little confused. That is normal. The instructions are simple and they do not ask you to believe anything.
Then you do them for two weeks. Something moves, or it does not. You find out for yourself.
By the third hour I also know something no conversation can tell me: whether you do things, or only mean to. That changes what I say next.
This is for you if.
Something is not working, at least not in the way you wanted
- You have been carrying something for years and you have never put the whole of it in front of one person at once.
- You are doing well by every measure anyone can see, and you would not describe yourself as well.
- You have already tried things. Some worked for a while. You do not know why they stopped.
- You know something has to change and you cannot tell which thing, or you are not sure of it.
Or nothing is wrong at all
- You function, you deliver, and you have simply never had someone look at the whole of it with you.
- You are about to decide something large — leave, start, sell, move, end it — and everyone you could ask has a stake in the answer.
- You simply want more from your life than you are getting. That is the second commonest reason people come.
This is not for you if.
- You want me to agree with a decision you have already made. I will say what I see, and you may not like it.
- You are in acute crisis. This is not the right help and I will say so rather than take your money.
- You will not do the two weeks. Then the third hour has nothing to work with and you have bought half a thing.
It makes no difference whether you run a company, a clinic, a classroom or a household. The pattern is never in the work. It is in the person doing the work, and that is the same everywhere.
What I do not promise.
Most people leave the third hour able to do one thing they could not do when they sat down. Sometimes it is small. Sometimes it is the thing they came about. I have seen both, hundreds of times.
A few do nothing with it. I cannot tell you which you will be before you sit down, and neither can you. That is what the two weeks are for.
What I promise is three hours, the written instructions and the page. Nothing about your result.
I am not a doctor and this is not medicine. Keep your doctor and tell them what you are doing.
If something else I do would actually help you, I say so in the third hour. If nothing would, I say that instead, and that happens often. This is not how my family lives, so I can tell you the truth.
Where this came from.
For years I did this at my own table, at home, one person at a time, often until early morning. There was no fee and no plan. Someone who had sat there told the next person, and that was the whole of it.
Everything else on this site came out of those nights. The six written works are what I could put on paper afterwards. The year is for the people who needed longer than one turn.
This is the original thing, and it is still the most direct. Now it has a name and a price, and you do not have to know somebody to get in.
The one thing you do not apply for.
Everything else here is by application, and I turn people down. Not this.
You do not have to be ready, you do not have to have tried anything first, and you do not have to know what is wrong. Not knowing what is wrong is the commonest reason to come.
The price.
$1,500. All three hours, the written instructions and the page.
If you later take one of the six, or a year, we take this $1,500 off the price of it. If you go on, these three hours cost you nothing.
I will not sell you the next thing unless I think you need it.
A small number of these each month. They take everything I have and I will not do them badly.
Book The Table.
Not sure yet?
Read the seven free letters first. They cost nothing, they take a week, and they will tell you whether any of this is for you.